Is it gay for a guy to add a guy friend on facebook if I've only hung with them a couple times? I've hung with the guy a couple times and requested he be my friend on facebook, but now I am worried he might think I'm gay for adding him? Is it gay? |
| No, dude. My friends do it all the time. He'll look at your profile and know you're straight anyway, eh? |
Why are people still hung up on the Gay marriage issue? Is it really that important to you? if it happens and passes, [which it slowly is, more with each state that's legalizes it]
Would you loose sleep over it? |
You know what's funny...
It's confusing to me, I'm trying to understand because...I thought that these same people (some) Who are indeed against Gay marriage, were protesting across this nation advocating smaller less invasive government?
I love how people use "God" as an excuse, isn't sitting in judgement and being in tolerant as sin as well?
People can say, "marriage is only between a man and a women"
But it's already been legalized in a few states.
A marriage doesn't involve anyone but the two in the marriage, people need to mind there own buiness because we have bigger issues to worry about.
Gays are tax paying Americans as well, they deserve the same rights, its just about equaitly. |
To people hung up of the gay issue: are you afraid? Since many of this site believe that homosexuality is natural, are you concerned of the spread of this trait to our entire population? I mean, if you believe that it is a natural element in our genetics, they our must be concerned with the fact that it is deemed beneficial to humans. (or it wouldn't have been passed to successive generations). Does this concern you at all? |
Mental retardation is natural, paraplegics are natural. and plenty of other birth defects are "natural".
We allow all these people to marry and live among us even though they're not the norm and they're not beneficial. By the way, homosexuality is more likely a birth defect than a genetic trait.
Most atheists don't hate people just because they're genetically inferior. I think you have us confused with fundamentalists ;)
Just keep loving who you love and believing what you believe. We won't interfere with your search for happiness if you don't interfere with ours. :) |
Why do people get so hung up on little things like saying "thats gay"? There are bigger issues in this world than someone getting offended. Nobody I know says "that gay" in a way that means homosexual. It has taken on another meaning in its own. Even my friend that is gay says it! |
I throw around the term "cuntbag" all the time in casual conversation too, and stranger never have a problem with it, especially women.
Sure, there are hypersensitivity issues out there. Still, if saying "that's lame" instead of "that's gay" saves you hours of headaches, prevents you from getting into a heated argument, and keeps those offended by the "gay" terminology from confronting you, what's the harm in saying, "that's lame," instead?
You'll save yourself hours of headaches by not letting this minor thing become a big deal, and the easiest way to do that is to avoid this minor thing. |
Why is our American society hung up on gay people and women's nipples? Who cares what gay people wanna do with each other? It's none of my business.
And why are people freaked out by women's nipples? You'd think Janet Jackson had been thrown down and raped the way the media went nuts over her nipple.
There're just nipples fer cryin' out loud.
Everybody has em. |
| If you've spend any time overseas, you realize what prudes the average American is. Too bad we can't send the puritan types back to England. |
Could jesus have been gay? he didn't get married or have a girlfriend, and he hung around with lots of? 'male friends' so how do we know he wasn't a homosexual? |
his dad created the rainbow to show his acceptance.
then, his followers screwed the whole thing up. |
Why are gay guys so hung up about types? Ok Im an ordinary guy next door. Ok looking, not muscle fit but not severely overweight either. However I find that it's hard to find someone special because gay guys always want gymfit muscle marys or slim slender smooth go-go boy types. You must wear the right labels, have the right cosmetics and be a size O. Amazingly even the most awful dogs sometimes put in their dating profile - only hunks need apply.
I find that in the straight world women are not so hung up to find a hunk and Im pretty popular as a "potential huband" to my female acquantances who are not aware of my sexuality. They often get disappointed when i tell them Im more into blokes and they often say if ever i turn straight they would date me. Why is that? Are gays that shallow?
I find that it's especially bad among Asian gays. If you are over 30 you're past it (unless you're rich). If you dont wear the right labels or not muscle-y you're not worth knowing. It's no wonder that people like myself do not settle down with a guy. |
| You got me. It's like as soon as your 30 your an old man and at 40, you turn into this disgusting twink leach, leaving trails of video games and candy down to your basement. I'm interesting and attractive, with a great job. What do they have to offer in return? Clumsy sex? Who the f-ck wants a guy who can't go away for a weekend with you because his grandma's coming to visit? |
The names of two gay boys hung in some foriegn country? i was wondering if anyone knew the names of thse 2 boys who were hung in some foriegn country not to long ago[i think this happend in iraq] the video and pics were all over myspace but i cant find there names |
On Sunday, November 13, the semi-official Tehran daily Kayhan reported that the Iranian government publicly hung two men, Mokhtar N. (24 years old) and Ali A. (25 years old), in the Shahid Bahonar Square of the northern town of Gorgan.
The government reportedly executed the two men for the crime of "lavat." Iran’s shari`a-based penal code defines lavat as penetrative and non-penetrative sexual acts between men. Iranian law punishes all penetrative sexual acts between adult men with the death penalty. Non-penetrative sexual acts between men are punished with lashes until the fourth offense, when they are punished with death. Sexual acts between women, which are defined differently, are punished with lashes until the fourth offense, when they are also punished with death.
“The execution of two men for consensual sexual activity is an outrage,” said Jessica Stern, researcher with the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Rights Program at Human Rights Watch. “The Iranian government’s persecution of gay men flouts international human rights standards.” |
Why are many gay guys hung up about looks? I have a number of gay friends who will only date beautiful people. The thing I hate is that they are very bluntly bitchy to the faces of people who they dont consider "beautiful" without consideration for those people's feelings. The funny thing is this even applies to some gay friends who are not that beautiful themselves. For example I have a gay friend who would only go out with hunks. He once went out on a blind date and when he saw the guy (whom he didnt consider attractive enough for him) he told the guy, "I'd rather not go out on this date with you." and just walked off. I mean, this guy took the trouble to come out into London to go on this blind date with him. And sorry to say, my friend's no Eric Dane himself. I told him that but he just told me, "I have my standards."
Is this a normal thing in the gay community? I seem to notice this as a prevalent attitude. |
This is why the gay community is so shallow and will never be able to unite. Then they b***h and whine and complain that the straights will not accept them.
WE need to be accepting of our own, before we can expect any one else to. |