Boyfriend is so ******* loud and obnoxious in public and is extremely offended by it when i tell him!!!!!!? We go out to places and if I say he's being inappropriate he yells, people are staring and when he's mad there's no calming him down. Yesterday, I was shopping on fifth ave and we were in abercrombie and fitch and he was yelling about he didn't like the store and it's for white people. He was complaining the line was too short. A woman was in front of us and I told him to settle down and he was like I don't care bout britney spears just being overly rude and I'm sure she heard him but he complains she didn't. SMH. He yells about little things in public and most of the time it be our business and like I said there's no calming him down. He's rude, he doesn't have manners, obnoxious and loud. I hate it! What should I do and he hates when I tell him. Can't blame people for making stereotypes about black people or any race for that matter. Why is he doing this? Why doesn't he understand that certain situations call for a certain behavior. Oh also he's in a bad situation going to the street for money, mother kicked him out and now living with cousin in a big unsanitary house, nobody been there for him, surviving on his own, etc. Help! |
People, like dogs, need to be socialized. Your boyfriend clearly hasn't been taught how to behave in social situations.
If you've told him off and he still doesn't listen then you might have to go look for a new guy. Seriously, you want someone who you can comfortably take out. You don't want someone who embarrasses you.
Have you actually sat him down and said, "I don't like how loud and obnoxious you are when we go out. I'm getting to the point where I'd rather not go out with you. I need a boyfriend who I can feel comfortable going out with".
Also, don't be the savior. From personal experience, you can't save everyone. His mother kicked him out, he needs to man up and find a job so he can sustain himself. He needs to learn how to clean up after himself so he doesn't live in a "big unsanitary house". Surviving on your own isn't an epic ordeal, it's what adults do. It's a big shock if you're sent out too early, but you need to learn how to adjust. It's really not your place to try to save him and help him.
For your sake, be honest with him and start looking for someone else, it will be a huge relief. |
Is it Illegal to wear a shirt with a swear word on it in public? I bought a shirt of my favorite band and on the back it says oh my ******* god in big bold letters, would it be illegal to wear this in public? |
| Yes. |
Why am i so bad in public? Every time i am in public(******* ANYWHERE!!!!!) I am very nervous like uncontrollable nervous i do not know why i think public anxiety but idk |
You might need to elaborate on your question a bit more... Are you afraid of people judging you, or something happening? If you are afraid of people judging you you should keep in mind that a lot of us are too busy worrying about how we look to even bother judging you on your appearance. Secondly WHO CARES? It may be something very important to you but to me if someone doesn't like the way I look then that's their problem, and they need to get a life, because its whats on the inside that counts.
If your afraid of something happening think of the chances of something happening. They are very little. More good things happen in the world than bad. There are many other reasons you could be like this. If you elaborate on your answer more I could possibly have an explanation.
Hope I helped...
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What should I do Im 18 and got a ticket for being intoxicated in a public place? I live in canada and the drinking age is 19, I went to an all ages event and I showed the bouncer my ID which says im born 06/15/88 and he let me into the drinking area. I got pretty drunk not too bad tho. I was there for about 3 or 4 hours when I steped outside the bar/club for a minute. Befor I left I asked one of the bouncer will I be able to get back in and he said I had 15 minutes until they wernt letting anyone else in the club/bar. so I steped outside to talk to my buddies for a minute and when I tired to get back in one of the bouncers said I couldent get back in, I said you have to be joking right which he wasent so i called him a ******* *** hole and the he puched me and I snaped,so I grabed him and threw him to the ground and people had to get me off him them I totally lost it, just swearing and calling all of the bouncers on. cops came I ran, they got me, and gave me 2 tickets for treaspasing and being drunk in a public place.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? THEY SERVERD ME UNDERAGED? |
Hon, they served alcohol to an age guy. BUT YOU'RE THE ONE THAT DRANK IT.
So, your being drunk in a public place is your fault.
Your mouthing off to the bouncers who would not let you back in (rightfully, since you acknowledge you're age) is also your fault.
Picking a fight with a bouncer, who was looking out for your own good in the first place? Also your fault.
What SHOULD you do? You SHOULD go to jail and have to pay a big fine for your stupidity. Maybe that'll be a lesson learned. And then years from now, when you're -hopefully- a mature adult, you can laugh about this incident that you brought upon yourself. |
What's the deal with David Cameron revealing UFO contact info to the public? Have we really made contact with another space civilization? Because, if so, I think that's a ******* huge deal. Why are more people not making a big deal out of this? Or is the British government just fooling around? |
Even if he claimed to reveal such info when hw as out the 10 Downing Street he wont now.
Yes i agree it would be awesome to know we aren't alone but no government will admit its true and dont ask me why |
My mum keeps calling me fat and i feel like ******* smashing something...? im tired of it. my mum calls me fat (im average) then she ******* tells me to eat more. she calls me fat in public every ******* where im done with it. then she says aweful ******* stuff like " you used to be skinnier close your mouth stop eating" in public (even if im eating fruit for my body) wtf is wrong with her.. god dammit |
| I don't think screaming at your mom is going to solve the problem. It is a parents job to build their guy's self esteem, not humiliate them and insult them. If she doesn't know this already, you may not be able to change her. But I would ask her why she constantly calls you fat and tell her how that makes you feel about her. Most mothers wouldn't want to alienate their own guy. Is your mom overweight? Could she be afraid you will end up like her? It is still not an excuse for her behavior. When a guy is told they are fat constantly, they can start to believe it and it can destroy their self image or even create an eating disorder. I understand your anger. My mom said things like that to me when I was young and now I have grown guyren and I still haven't forgotten it. I wish I would have said something to her about it at the time. I don't know how old you are but I was a young teenager. I was not overweight at all. My mom wasn't overweight either. I know it would be hard, but I would say something without losing your temper. If you scream it will instigate an argument and she may not take what you say seriously. Imagine her reaction if you just calmly told her how you feel. If this doesn't work for you, how bout the next time she does it you say "I'm not fat, mom, but you must want me to be or you wouldn't keep saying that all the time." And remind yourself every day that you are beautiful. |
Do you know the national health care plan mandates everyone get a BMI within 2 years that will be made public? Yep, here we go. Big government take over of your WHOLE ******* LIFE! |
| You know that's just the very start don't you? You ain't seen nothin yet, tbl baby baby baby you ain't seen nu nu nuthin yet! They gonna do rotten **** to you that you're never gonna forget ... you know you know you know you just aint seen nothin yet (rhythm stolen from BTO lol) |
Why do white people have the most disgusting farts? white guys...white girls... why do your farts sound so wet and smell so disgusting?! i honestly hate it when white people fart. then majority of them do it in ******* public. must be all the mcdonalds that the white hoez eat. |
| For that is YOUR perception.. |
Prep School, Public School, or Homeschooled? Ok So I went to public school (which is in New York) for freshman year, then I went to a prep school for this year (sophmore) and not, I am in a dilema because I really cant afford to go back to Prep school because we can't get any more financial aid, but the only way I can go back to my public school is by taking the stupid regent exams for geometry, biology, and global 2. I took a geometry and biology course this year but i haven't taken global two. So this is how ridiculous this is, I've learned ten times more at my new school this year and I have huge finals after every term, and now the ******* public school won't let me graduate without taking the geometry and biology exams, and taking global 2 class junior year..like wtf??? why the **** does NY have this regents law or whatever? all my public school cares about are the damn regents they don't even care about what we learn. So yeah I don't know what to do now and another option is to get a really good homeaschooling program to do at home which i really don't want to do because I will have no social life but like omg i'm like trapped I have no idea what to do! any advice? |
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I ******* hate my parents and need to move out? fights between my parents are so bad that its getting abusive and i just cant take it. My dad is a rude asshole who keeps telling me i have issues and that no one likes me. I go to a private school want to move out right now and go to a different public school to complete the year. Can a 17 year old get an apartment and register at a school without parent consent? |
If it really is getting abusive, you should get help from someone who is close to you.
Move out while u still can, what if the abuse gets worse?
But, think about it. Do you truly want to do this?
If you move out, who knows when will u see ur parents again
after all, they raised u and cared for u.
It could also be of old age?
or maybe they have caught an illness?
stress?
depression?
However, what does YOUR abuse means?
FYI, countries such as china and malaysia, parents beat their guy, but out of love.
they believe that this way, it will teach the guy never t make the mistake again.
but the thing is, the parents do love their guyren, very dearly.
Think about it.
Can you get an apartment? where's the money?
it's not possible to register at a scool without parents consent
they'll know that u are a runaway and report to ur parents
think of the consequences. |